Tough Enough: Women’s Rugby Puts Sport First
For most players on women’s Rugby Football Clubs (RFCs), being in or
out as lesbians isn’t a big deal. Women have played instrumental roles
in the growth of rugby, even in gay men’s clubs. The Portland Avalanche,
Atlanta Bucks, San Diego Armada, and the Gotham Knights, for example, have
all had female coaches within their ranks.
But women’s clubs haven’t been in the spotlight as much as men’s.
Part of this is due to the fame of Mark Bingham, founder of the San
Francisco Fog RFC and former Cal Berkeley player, who died on Flight 93 on
Sept. 11, 2001. Bingham’s death brought gay men in rugby to an
international spotlight, and a rugby tournament was subsequently named
after him.
The Bingham Cup is the biennial tournament of the International Gay
Rugby Association and Board (IGRAB). Previous Cups were held in San
Francisco in 2002 and in London in 2004.
Hosted by the Gotham Knights RFC, this year’s tournament will take
place May 25-28 in New York City.
For the first time since its inception, women’s RFCs have been
invited to compete in their own part of the tournament. Among them is the
Washington, D.C. Women’s Furies RFC.
Candace Gingrich, a B-side starter, says she’s happy that "the
Furies will be part of something honoring Bingham’s memory and his
selfless act of courage. It is significant because Mark Bingham was and is
inspirational to millions of Americans. But he is also an inspiration to
gay athletes everywhere—especially gay male ruggers."
The half-sister of former Speaker of the House Newt Gingrich, and a
political activist who has worked with the Human Rights Campaign for
years, Gingrich has played rugby since 1987, when she started at Indiana
University of Pennsylvania. After graduating, she co-founded the Capital
Area Women’s Rugby Football Club in Harrisburg, Pa. The club lasted for
almost four years. After moving to Washington, DC, Gingrich joined the DC
Furies, where she’s played ever since.
The Furies participate in matches known as 7s and 15s (based on the
players per team). Their spring tournament, the Capitol Women’s
Ruggerfest, welcomes between 22 and 28 teams annually. Rugby rules for
women are the same as for men—and so are most injuries to knees, ankles,
fingers, and shoulders. However, Gingrich says, "Rugby is no more
dangerous than other sports—in fact, many of the laws of rugby are
designed to make the sport safer for those who play."
In addition to considering physical safety issues, players must weigh
their own comfort at being out. While no gay-identified men’s teams
prohibit straight players, they have built a community where out gay male
athletes can compete in a friendly environment. Yet no women’s rugby
club is specifically lesbian-identified.
"The vast majority of women’s rugby teams are
lesbian-friendly," says Gingrich. "But that aspect of a women’s
team is somewhat less important, I believe, than it is on a men’s team.
While people know that lesbians play sports, there is a misperception
that gay men don’t play team sports, so forming teams that emphasize
their welcomeness is more important."
Tiffany Brakefield has played rugby at Smith College, in Boston, and in
Amsterdam. Finding the right team after moving to Chicago last year was
important. Brakefield was told by other players that the Chicago Women’s
RFC, which celebrates its 30th anniversary this year, was more open and
welcoming of lesbian players. She’s played scrumhalf position since
then.
"I’ve played on very open teams before, and was not about to
choose a team where I didn’t feel comfortable discussing my personal
life," says Brakefield. "Our team tries to recruit talented
players, whatever their sexual orientation might be." Her club holds
fundraising and social events at bars in Boystown (the gay area of
Chicago).
Ruggers often travel to tournaments, like the Champaign Classic in San
Diego, to be held March 11-12. This summer, Brakefield’s team will merge
with Chicago’s North Shore team to compete in rugby tournaments at
Chicago’s Gay Games VII, to be held July 15-22. Individual players of
all skill levels can use the event’s "team finder" matching
system to participate.
Brakefield will also compete in soccer and sprint triathlon events. She
hopes the publicity of the Gay Games "will allow potential rugby
players to see what we’re all about, especially college players who are
either from the Midwest or are relocating to this area after
college."
Will such competition pave the way for more openness in women’s
rugby? "We’ve grown up in a society that still has strong
misconceptions and stereotypes about lesbians and sports," says
Gingrich. "Conversely, I actually have found women’s rugby to be a
welcome environment for women of all orientations. The bottom line is, do
you love rugby?"
"I think I understand the rationale behind gay men’s teams, but
in the end, it really shouldn’t be about that," says Chicago Women’s
RFC’s Cynthia Galvan. "It’s not about being gay, it’s about
playing rugby."
Galvan knew of two other lesbian rugby players when she was at
Princeton University. She says a few more women have come out at her alma
mater since she graduated five years ago. A medical student at University
of Chicago, Galvan will continue playing rugby next year as she begins her
residency in emergency medicine.
For Brakefield, playing rugby includes a certain presumption, which for
her isn’t a problem. "Rugby girls have the reputation of being
either crazy party types or big lesbians—or both." Of her college
teams, she says, "Gay women would sometimes join the team because
they knew it was a very open team. By joining, you were sort of making a
statement."
Along with the tough play comes a closeness that transcends sexual
orientation. "You’ve got to be mentally and physically tough,"
says Brakefield. "It’s a really intense game, and you really lay
yourself on the line for each other on the pitch—literally. You go to
battle with the other team, and it can be really emotional at times, and
intense in every sense of the word."