Is Unsportsmanlike Conduct a Straight Thing?
A boatload of Minnesota Vikings has an impromptu orgy. High school
wrestlers "teabag" a teammate in a strange hazing ritual. A male
coach is caught molesting girls or secretly videotaping them.
With so many athletes—from professionals down to small-town
recreational coaches—making headlines for illegal acts, and the majority
of them heterosexuals, why are GLBT people in athletics still considered a
threat?
Bob Reno runs the website badjocks.com, which recounts the ongoing
travails of athletes’ blunders, from arrests and convictions to
outrageous statements and behavior.
With a background in talk radio, Reno created the site in 2000 to keep
up with athletic misbehavior. "I wondered if there was a site that
just focused on the bad things that athletes did," says Reno.
"Not finding any, I created Bad Jocks, and it has been downhill ever
since!"
An active athlete as a youth, Reno says he’s not out to "get
back" at athletes with the site. "I just find the stories
hilarious at times and think my readers will, too. So far, I’ve been
right."
Although he doesn’t keep statistical data on the athletes he covers,
Reno says the idea that gays and lesbians in athletics are a threat is a
misperception. "I think parents should be more concerned about
straight coaches and teachers hitting on their kids. That appears to be,
from my perspective, a much greater, and often overlooked, threat."
Also puzzling is the increasing number of cases where groups of boys
sexually assault other boys. "Hazing has become more sexual in the
past five years," says Reno. "I think parents and coaches have
no idea how bad it is getting. Some of it comes from what is seen in
movies, and in other respects it’s just a way to ‘up the ante,’ so
to speak, from the typical beatings and forced drinking hazing that were
done in the past."
What is it about athletes’ behavior that often leads to such acts?
"Stupidity," says Reno, "and adults who look the other way
because they think that what is going on is the same hazing that was being
done 20 years ago. That’s not even close, based on what I have
reported."
Reno says school administrators often fail to act. "At the high
school level, you get some principal saying, ‘But we have a policy
against hazing,’ like the policy will prevent it from happening. All the
policy does is tell you who to punish and for how long when they get
caught."
The problem, Reno says, is that administrators, coaches, and parents
ignore or condone bad behavior, because winning at sports is more
important than how athletes treat each other. "Ultimately, things
will change when the schools start getting sued for not taking action or
[for] ignoring past incidents."
Author and educator Pat Griffin takes a more positive approach to the
problems of sexual
harassment and "bad behavior" with her work for the Women’s
Sports Foundation’s (WSF) "It Takes a Team" project, which
focuses on outreach and education at athletic departments in universities
and schools.
Griffin agrees that sexual harassment is still a problem in sports,
both for women harassed by men, and also for women who are perceived to be
lesbians. Numerous cases of discrimination and homophobic statements and
behavior by coaches and athletes fill the pages of the WSF’s website,
which documents them.
Despite such obstacles, Griffin says that the tide is changing for GLBT
athletes facing potential discrimination and harassment. "For younger
athletes, things are changing. Some of them are going to come out. Young
athletes are more willing to stand up for their rights."
Griffin cites recent lawsuits and settlements involving athletes like
University of Florida softball player Andrea Zimbardi and former Penn
State basketball player Jennifer Harris, both of whom sued their
universities after being dismissed from team rosters simply because they
were presumed to be lesbians. (Harris is heterosexual.)
Along with making advancements for women athletes, Title IX also
includes stipulations regarding sexual harassment. "If players on a
team simulate sex, that covers sexual harassment of all kinds," says
Griffin. She doesn’t think a statistical comparison between the rate of
straight and gay harassment cases has ever been conducted. Part of the
problem of such a comparison is that so many GLBT athletes don’t come
out until after leaving athletics.
When an athlete comes out, it’s still perceived as more controversial
than the unlawful behavior of a straight athlete. Griffin sees this as
changing, both socially and legally. She says she spends less time having
to work at convincing athletic departments about discrimination than in
previous years. Griffin also believes that, although there are still few
out athletes, they should be considered role models.
"For men, the stereotypical image has been that gay men are not
competitive, not tough enough," Griffin says. "It’s important
for people to see that these stereotypes are not true. Women athletes who
come out become instant heroes, because lesbians want strong heroes."
For Reno, gay athletes aren’t the problem. "Just when I think I
have heard it all, some [straight athlete] does something even more
disturbing. In comparison, an openly gay athlete would be a breath of
fresh air."
Jim Provenzano is the author of the novels PINS and Monkey Suits. Read
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