Day of Silence for GLBT Kids
According to the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Net-work’s Web
site, the national "Day of Silence" is the largest single
student-led action aimed at drawing attention to the bullying and
harassment of gay and lesbian students that remains all too frequent in
America’s school system.
More than 1900 schools with more than 100,000 students are expected to
participate in this year’s "Day of Silence," scheduled to take
place Wednesday, April 13, across the country.
On the "Day of Silence," students take a vow of silence,
refusing to speak the entire day as a way of showing solidarity with gay,
lesbian, bisexual and transgender students whose voices and identities are
squelched on a regular basis.
The idea for the "Day of Silence" got its start back in 1996
at the University of Virginia, where 150 campus students took place in the
first-ever event. The impact of the day inspired two students to take the
event nationally. They developed a program that could be adopted by middle
schools through universities all around the country.
If there was ever any doubt about the need for such an event or the
seriousness of the problems it is meant to underscore, just listen to the
words of those opposed to protecting gay and lesbian kids in schools.
Peter LaBarbera, the well-known anti-gay crusader who is head of a
group called Americans for Truth, called on gay and lesbian advocates to
take what he called a "Decade of Silence."
"Parents are sick and tired of pro-gay liberals using the trusted
school environment to promote homosexuality and gender confusion as normal
to impressionable children," he said.
"We need more silence from the radical homosexual education
lobby," LaBarbera continued.
"Most parents simply have no clue as to how much pro-gay
propaganda has found its way into our schools."
Before you dismiss this callous call to undermine the safety and
welfare of gay and lesbian students as an extreme reaction from a far
right-winger, consider these facts:
• More than 75 percent of the nearly 48 million kids who are in
school in America from kindergarten through high school attend an
institution that does not protect them from discrimination based on sexual
orientation or gender identity, as they protect other groups, such as
those based on race or religion.
• Studies have shown a strong correlation between safe school laws,
student protection and class attendance. Gay and lesbian students who do
not have school policies that protect them from violence and harassment
based on their sexual orientation are 40 percent more likely to skip
school out of fear for their safety than kids who go to schools with such
safeguards.
• Seven states—Alabama, Arizona, Mississippi, Oklahoma, South
Carolina, Texas and Utah—have laws that specifically prohibit positive
portrayals of gay and lesbian people, or of gay and lesbian issues in
schools.
• Nationally, 4 out of 5 GLBT students have reported being harassed
because of their sexual orientation.
• Of those who have been targets of harassment, 83 percent say that
the faculty or staff of their schools rarely or never intervene when they
are present and homophobic harassment takes place.
• Almost a third of students who self-identify as gay or lesbian
report they have skipped at least one day of classes out of fear for
personal safety.
• Not surprisingly, the lack of protection and safety has a direct
affect on gay and lesbian student achievement and learning. Gay and
lesbian students who report they are the targets of repeated harassment
are twice as likely to report that they do not intend to attend college.
• When gay and lesbian students say they cannot identify any
supportive faculty members at their schools, 24 percent report no plans
for going to college. But in schools where students say they can find
supportive teachers and faculty members, the number of gay and lesbian
students who say they do not intend to go to college drops to about 10
percent.
Attempts to silence or stifle gay and lesbian students and their
achievements are all too common.
And while there has been progress, with more than 3000 gay-supportive
student groups being formed at schools across the country, other such
groups are frequently denied, or schools place obstacles to student
membership.
For example, recently the Harrisonburg School Board in Virginia voted
that all students had to have parental consent to join any student group.
The policy was put in place only after a Gay/Straight Alliance was formed
at the school, to much opposition.
The tactic taken in Harrisonburg is a common one employed by schools
that do not want to welcome or protect gay kids, or the groups that
support them.
Naturally, many school kids are just coming to terms or recognizing
their sexuality, and need safe places to talk about it. That’s the
purpose of the student groups. Many students cannot tell their parents of
their sexual orientation, for fear of disownment or even physical harm.
Requiring parental consent to be in such a group effectively eliminates
the support group for a large number of students.
Other schools have gone the way of the White County Board of Education
in Cleveland, Georgia. There, school administrators are recommending the
cutting of all "noncurricular clubs."
The policy change comes soon after a Gay/Straight Alliance applied for
school membership.
This tactic is another one used by many schools to stop gay supportive
student groups. In many cases, the schools are afraid of activist or legal
action if they simply deny a gay group, and therefore they cut all
extracurricular activities rather than let a gay group survive.
This not only deprives gay and lesbian kids of a support network and
their own club, it also further demonizes them at school. Other kids see
their activities and clubs taken away from them, and "Blame" the
gay students.
These examples illustrate that, despite the remarks of Peter LaBarbera,
education experts and advocates need to speak up more, not less, for gay
and lesbian students.
Mubarak Dahir, editor of The Express, the GLBT newspaper in Fort
Lauderdale, Florida, may be reached at