Living as my partner Corey and I do in Milton, we find ourselves in the
36th Legislative District, which extends from north of Lewes to south
Milford, including Broadkill Beach, Slaughter Beach,
Lincoln and
Ellendale. A while ago we heard the buzz that a progressive candidate was
emerging to challenge the anti-gay incumbent Representative George Carey.
Could it be that GLBT citizens will finally be represented in our
District? Never one to sit back and wonder, I made it a point to interview
Brian Dolan and let him speak for himself.
Doug: Brian, as you know, my spouse and I live in your district
and are well acquainted with the incumbent State Representative. We have
lobbied Rep. George Carey in person and by mail and email for a decade now
but he seems very proud of his 100% anti-gay voting record. Him we know
all too well. Tell me about yourself.
Brian: I’m 45 years old, a native Delawarean and have resided
in Milton for over ten years. After graduating from the University of
Delaware I served on active duty in the U.S. Navy for five years. Upon
leaving active duty I continued to serve in the Reserves while attending
law school. I’m a partner in the Georgetown law firm of Stumpf, Vickers
& Sandy. Last year my wife Emma passed away after a long battle with
cancer. I have a seventeen-year-old daughter, Melissa. I have been a
Democrat since I first registered to vote when I was eighteen.
Doug: The current Republican Representative has held office for
almost 20 years. What makes you want to challenge him?
Brian: Sussex County is in a period of transition and tremendous
change which is being fueled by rapid residential development. Many newer
residents have moved from urban neighborhoods to this area to enjoy the
natural beauty and lifestyle of a more rural environment. However, this
very process will dramatically change the county. Our challenge is to
ensure this change is made constructively so as to preserve what is best
about Sussex County while welcoming new members to our community. To
accomplish this we need a proactive legislator to address a host of issues
from environmental concerns to the demands this growth will place on our
infrastructure. Our schools must continue to get better. To successfully
manage this change we must all work together in a spirit of tolerance
instead of focusing upon our differences. The incumbent is a senior member
of the majority party yet has avoided all major leadership positions in
the Delaware General Assembly. His record is not one of activism nor, in
my opinion, is he suited by temperament to respond effectively to this
period of transition.
Doug: When you mention "a spirit of tolerance" do you
as a heterosexual see lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Delawareans
in need of a more level playing field?
Brian: To me the whole concept of "coming out" is
somewhat disconcerting. I mean what does it say about our society when
there is such a stigma about being gay that people suppress their real
feelings, sometimes for a lifetime, for fear of how they will be treated?
Discrimination based upon sexual orientation is simply wrong. By codifying
this simple truth, legislation such as HB99 will serve to gradually reduce
the impact of both overt and more subtle forms of discrimination.
Doug: The incumbent Representative has told me he is opposed to
HB99 on religious grounds. Is a lawmaker’s personal religious
perspective a valid determining factor in her or his legislative
decisions?
Brian: Each of us comes to our faith in a different way: some
through rigorously studying the Scriptures, others through their clergy
and still others through quiet reflection. Regardless of how we arrive at
our faith the process is a deeply personal one and legislators are no
exception. I do not believe we can separate our faith or lack of faith
from who we are as people. Nevertheless, it is not a lawmaker’s place to
prescribe what is the orthodox path to salvation through legislative fiat.
There is a reason why religion is addressed in the very first sentence of
the First Amendment.
Doug: As you know, Brian, Sen. John Still wants to amend the
Delaware State constitution to not only outlaw gay marriage but even civil
unions. What do you think about that?
Brian: He obviously feels he needs a polarizing issue to get
reelected. I’m sure he has frightened a lot of people. It is unfortunate
that he has chosen such a divisive strategy for his campaign. I do not
feel such an amendment is necessary.
Doug: Brian, I’ve got to say that heterosexual males in our
society are many times homophobic or at least insensitive to the concerns
of sexual minorities. How is it that you are so gay-supportive?
Brian: I don’t think I’m an exception. Most people try to be
fair even if their life experiences do not predispose them to a certain
viewpoint.
Doug: But what a refreshing change in mindset from what we’ve
had to endure for almost two decades! Thank you very much, Brian.
State Treasurer Jack Markell will officially announce Brian’s
candidacy at 4 p.m., Tuesday, May 18 at the Mulberry Street Café in
Milton, with refreshments to follow. Everyone is welcome to attend!