Aging Gracefully and Becoming a Radical
Aging gracefully and becoming a radical may sound incongruous but they
really aren’t in the world in which we live.
We are bombarded with images of young virile men and women, circuit
parties, ads telling us how to fight aging with creams and ointments,
Botox, and Viagra. We even have to look at an aging Bob Dole telling us
how Viagra is helping his love life with Senator Liddy. That this passes
the obscenity test for most of society, or at least they don’t object
too loudly, seems amazing.
I find it really interesting to hear what the vast straight population
in our nation is worrying about and what they find inappropriate. Their
response to the question on what is obscene is what is making me more
radical as I grow older.
Our nation was founded on the principles of freedom from religious
persecution and the concept of allowing each person the right to pursue
life, liberty and happiness. Our founding fathers were clear that we
should separate church and state. The real obscenities in our nation that
are turning me radical are our right wing religious and political leaders
that now say we may only pursue those things if we do them in what they
consider is the correct way. We continue to blur the lines of church and
state in a direct repudiation of our founding fathers. We pass laws to
fund religious institutions with federal tax money and pay for school
vouchers for children to attend religious schools. We allow our political
leaders to term gay marriage an offense against religion even though we
have civil marriage for everyone in this nation without regard to any
religious institution. We allow ourselves to be led by a cabal of old
white men and their offspring that want to take away rights from everyone
else. That is the true obscenity in our culture today. If radicalism can
be defined as objecting to all this and speaking out forcefully, then I am
becoming an aging radical and urge all other baby boomers to become one as
well.
I was very impressed with the recent March for Women’s Lives held in
Washington, DC. One million women, and the men that support them, came
together to speak with one voice. They called on our leaders to allow
women to control their own lives and their own bodies.
A true obscenity is that Gloria Steinem, at the age of 70, is
re-fighting the battles she thought she won at 40. We all keep having to
fight the same battles over and over because the right wing in this nation
won’t allow anyone who disagrees with them to live life in peace. They
will continue to try to have each of us live our lives as they see fit,
and believe that their interpretation of what their god tells them must be
the rule of law for all of us.
I think it’s time that the largest population block in the country,
those of us aging baby boomers, speak out and take back this great nation
of ours and re-direct all of our power and might into sharing the real
values of America with the rest of the world. The real American values
that speak of democracy, freedom and capitalism, but don’t foist those
values on others, but show them how they can benefit from them.
Many of us grew up in the sixties and spouted the slogan, "Make
love not war." It was both simplistic, and if followed, lots of fun.
But with all that’s happening today it is again reverberating among the
nation’s youth and those of us who have left our youth far behind. How
do we ask the rest of the world to speak out against fanatics themselves,
if we don’t speak out against our own?
Obscenity is always in the eyes and mind of the beholder, but we must
find a way for all of us to follow a path together of live and let live,
and do no harm to your neighbor. We must grow older gracefully, but that
doesn’t preclude being outraged and acting radically when we see wrongs,
and when we know that we as a nation can do better.