Gay Sports’ Sweet Music
Summer’s here—in fact, it’s in full swing—so, according to
Martha and the Vandellas, the time is right for dancin’ in the street.
That sounds so-o-o 1960s. In 2007, men and women spend the summer
playing softball, volleyball, tennis, and polo (water and pony). This
being the ‘00s, plenty of gay men and lesbians fill the diamonds,
courts, and fields.
In the midst of so much fun—and at the midway point of the year—let’s
take a halftime break to look at some GLBT stories we might have
overlooked.
One involves Anthony Castro. According to LZ Granderson of ESPN.com,
Anthony was a 6-foot, 210-pound all-conference quarterback at California’s
Banning High School. He captained the swim team, wrestled, and joined the
yearbook. Of course, "teachers loved him, and girls adored him."
Anthony was 19 years old when he died earlier this year. The truck he
was riding in crashed into a ravine.
His homosexuality is irrelevant. He came out as a sophomore and was
taunted. He took on a harasser—a heavyweight wrestler—and pinned him.
That’s probably the right move for a gay athlete who also dealt with a
father in prison, and a mother who threw him out of the house when she
learned he was gay.
But this is not really about Anthony Castro (though it’s surprising
that Lifetime hasn’t made a movie of his life). It’s about gay sports
today. Here’s what I found truly intriguing: Though his high school
football coach "heard rumors," he did not know for sure his
captain was gay until the memorial service.
The coach’s reaction had nothing to do with Anthony’s sexuality,
and everything to do with his character: "No one wanted to win more
than him. He was a workhorse on the field, and a really great kid off
it."
Enough said.
Bob Witeck
(pictured at right) would not be surprised by that ho-hum reaction to a gay
three-sport star. As CEO of Witeck-Combs Communications, a public
relations firm specializing in the GLBT consumer market, he teamed with
Harris Interactive to poll 2,510 straight Americans about gay athletes.
The results were released earlier this year.
Nearly three-quarters—72 percent—said their feelings would not
change if a favorite male professional athlete came out of the closet.
That’s a 6 percent increase from the 66 percent response to a similar
question in 2002.
What’s driving the favorable reactions to gay athletes? "Culture
in general," Witeck says. "A greater understanding of gays in
all walks of life leads to greater awareness of gays in places like the
locker room. The comfort level rises with what I call ‘rational
awareness.’"
The positive reaction to former NBA player John Amaechi’s coming-out
shows one side of the increased acceptance of gay athletes; the other side
was the near-universal vilification of former star Tim Hardaway’s
knee-jerk reaction ("You know I hate gay people") when Amaechi
came out.
"Something important is happening when people like Hardaway are
shot down," Witeck says. "People know they don’t have
permission to go bat-shit just because someone is gay."
The Witeck-Combs/Harris survey got a bit of coverage, and it was
referenced during a panel on gay athletes held on the men’s NCAA Final
Four basketball weekend in Atlanta. But—like Anthony Castro’s life and
death—this was not stop-the-presses news. It was one more example of
life on the playing fields in 2007.
And last month the New York Times ran a story stunning in its
ordinariness. The paper often profiles over-the-hill, down-on-their-luck
ex-athletes, and this feature fit the genre. "Ex-Champion Is Prepared
To Join March," the headline read; photos showed a rheumy-eyed,
stubble-faced fighter with clearly too many hits to the head.
He was Emile Griffith, a member of the International Boxing Hall of
Fame now best known for pummeling welterweight Benny Paret to death in
1962.
The march Griffith was preparing for was New York’s Gay Pride parade.
He would be a guest of the Stonewall Veterans’ Association, an
organization of which he is vice president—though he has never said
unequivocally that he is gay.
Writer Aimee Berg’s piece sidestepped that question with Muhammad Ali
rope-a-dope-like grace. It mentioned Griffith’s visits to gay bars
(including the Stonewall Inn) during his prime, and addressed longstanding
rumors that his ferocity against Paret came after Paret called him a
"fag" during weigh-ins.
Berg made it clear that Griffith should be allowed to call himself
whatever he wants. So, by extension, should all gay athletes—all people,
for that matter. Griffith was a boxer first, a gay activist second. In the
final analysis, who really cares?
The promised land of gay equality may not yet be here, but we’re a
lot closer than just a few years ago. Much of the reason stems from the
"normalization" of GLBT athletes. And that’s reason enough to
be dancin’ in the street.
Dan Woog is a journalist, educator, soccer coach, gay activist, and
author of the "Jocks" series of books on gay male athletes.
Visit his website at www.danwoog.com. He can be reached at