NYC’s Happiest Synagogue
One of the best things about being a gay, Jewish, New Yorker is access
to the many activities emanating from Congregation Beth Simchat Torah,
better known as the Gay Synagogue.
Founded in 1973 by a small group of worshippers who did not even know
each other’s last names, meeting in a tiny room rented from a church,
CBST has grown in the ensuing thirty-three years into a thriving,
year-round congregation with nearly 1,000 members, two full time rabbis
and both a secular and social agenda.
Since many "straight" congregations are no kinder to gay Jews
than many churches are to gay Christians, the Gay Synagogue has no trouble
attracting members who come from all other branches of Judaism, giving its
religious services a feeling of diversity in terms of ritual and music. A
Friday night service might include orthodox cantorial music,English
language readings borrowed from the Reform branch of Judaism, and a sermon
from the rabbi that begins with detailed reference to the Torah and grows
into an impassioned, political exhortation.
An invitation to address the CBST congregation has become a highly
prized accolade to many city and state politicians. Several congressmen,
and more than a few city council people, have been asked to deliver
"sermons" (more like political manifestos). To celebrate Gay
Pride Week this spring, Christine Quinn, the recently elected New York
City Council President, the first lesbian to hold that post, spoke to
great acclaim. In fact, when elections are looming, more than a few
candidates simply show up just to be seen in a gay milieu.
The membership of the Gay Synagogue is as diverse as one could hope to
find. The mix includes many teachers, several municipal and federal judges
(including a pair of twin sisters), a number of writers, Broadway composer
William Finn (Falsettoland, A New Brain), a virtuoso actor who is seen,
from time to time, on Law and Order. There is a retired school principal
whose public persona is so...well...formidable, that some male teachers
who know her tremble at her approach. There’s also an absolutely
delightful lady of 97 years, still sharp and alert, who is usually
introduced as "America’s oldest, Jewish Lesbian!"
The head rabbi is Sharon Kleinbaum, abrilliant dynamo who is as
articulate when discussing theological issues as when delving into
political matters, and possessed of a highly developed social conscience—there
are always service and charitable projects to take part in.
CBST’s second rabbi, a scholarly and self-effacing young woman,
Ayelet Cohen, also a fine orator, dedicates herself to pushing for gay
marriage, and gay rights in general. This has earned her the enmity of the
Conservative Board of Rabbis which is not pleased that Rabbi Cohen found a
career at the Gay Synagogue without its authorization. They have been
trying to pressure her into leaving CBST. The rabbi has eloquently and
courageously fought for her right to stay at the Gay Synagogue. Her
struggles have been chronicled in The New York Times, among other
publications. It might be added that Rabbi Cohen, who is not gay, is
fiercely loyal to CBST.
These two women have often spoken out at demonstrations calling for our
right to wed. Rabbi Kleinbaum is particularly hated by Orthodox rabbis,
one of whom called her "the greatest terrorist in the world
today."
Congregants are often urged to pray for "every single person, Jew,
Christian or Muslim in Israel. Beyond the rabbinical fireworks, Sabbath
services are also marked by wonderful music—there is a full time music
director, the CBST Community Chorus, and alternating cantors
(chanter/singers of liturgical materials), making each service seem like a
concert.
There are several dozen young children of members, and the Synagogue
has opened a Sunday School, as well as a "Lehrhaus" where both
religious and secular adult courses are taught.
CBST has participated in the annual Gay Pride Day parade for many
years, providing its own float. As the sound system plays Israeli music
and a hundred or more marchers walk right behind the float, the crowd
always waves and shouts encouragement. It’s very cheering to be greeted
so cordially by thousands of people, most of whom are not Jewish. I guess
the gay world still believes in the "melting pot."
While the synagogue has its own small suite of offices on Bethune
Street, it uses the Church of the Holy Apostle on Ninth Avenue for Friday
night services—which can attract several hundred worshippers. The
socially-minded Episcopal congregation sponsors New York City’s largest
soup kitchen and CBST folk volunteer their time for it.
Taking care of its own, the synagogue boasts a well organized committee
that provides comfort to the sick and bereaved. As these words are being
written, several dozen CBSTsters are on their way to the International Gay
Pride conference in Jerusalem.
CBSThosts High Holiday services in larger venues, notably Yom Kippur at
the enormous Javits Convention Center, where we can watch the sun set over
the Hudson River during services. There is an "open door" policy—all
are welcome without charge.
Clearly, for an engaging "take" on Judaism, a fine place for
gays to worship, socialize, and speak outabout activism and culture, CBST
has come to play a large role in New York Jewish life. So don’t be a
stranger—come visit us on your next trip to the Big Apple Strudel!
Editor’s note: Of course, gay friendly worship is not just the
purview of New York. In the beach area, Seaside Jewish Community is very
welcoming to the GLBT community, the mostly gay Metropolitan Community
Church holds services at The Plantations on Sundays, and other very
welcoming houses of worship include Epworth United Methodist Church on
Baltimore Avenue, All-Saints Episcopal Church on Olive Avenue, Westminster
Presbyterian on First Street, and the Unitarian Universalists in Lewes.