Rehoboth Beach Police detectives are pursuing information related to a
late night confrontation between six men—three gay and three straight—which
occurred Aug. 7 between Christian Street and Scarborough Avenue. One
misdemeanor arrest was made immediately on the scene and the police are
investigating the alleged possibility that the event is tantamount to a
hate crime.
The violent event was precipitated by a verbal tirade which included
vulgar language and antigay slurs directed at the three gay males by
Rehoboth resident Vincenzo DiDomenicis. As the event escalated into a
heated exchange by both parties, DiDomenicis and his friends brought out
lead pipes from their vehicle. DiDomenicis currently faces a disorderly
conduct charge.
RBPD Chief Keith Banks said the department is reviewing the statements
of all six men and has requested they each submit to second interviews
before adding any new charges.
"This is a high priority. As long as this case is open, new
charges can be filed. Mr. DiDomenicis was arrested for using that language
and for causing that fight and now we’ll go from there. So far, it is
not being considered a hate crime," said Banks. By definition, a hate
crime is targeted criminal activity, usually motivated by prejudice based
on perceived personal characteristics of the victims such as race,
religion, ethnicity, and sexual orientation.
For Matt Beierschmitt, this certainly feels like a hate crime. Now at
home in New Jersey recovering from intensive oral surgery and chin and jaw
wiring, Beierschmitt said he was stunned by the violence of the local men
and disappointed with what he considers an insensitive reaction by the
city police. "The guys were yelling about how gays and lesbians have
ruined the town and should be forced to leave. The one even kept shouting
about a gay Taliban, it didn’t even make any sense. Then the one guy was
kicking our car before running off to his vehicle. It was scary, who keeps
lead pipes in their truck? It was bizarre," he said. Although he
stands a formidable 6’ 7" tall, Beierschmitt was struck by an
attack from behind which resulted in a broken jaw, lost teeth, and
whiplash. He said regardless of the criminal proceedings he will be filing
civil charges for medical costs and damages.
Lawrence Franchetti, who was walking with Beierschmitt, was not
physically injured during the altercation but said he remains shaken by
it. While he feels in retrospect that he and his friends probably should
have ignored the taunting of DiDomenicis, Franchetti said the words and
actions of the straight men seemed imminently threatening and motivated by
prejudice of their sexual orientation.
"The irony is that we thought someone else was in danger when we
heard the ranting. Then we realized the slurs were against gays and that
they were talking to us," said Franchetti.
"I think it is very important that the community have awareness of
this event. I think over the years we have all begun to take our safety in
Rehoboth for granted and it clearly should not be. I also think that the
officers should be coached on appropriate responses to these crimes on
gays," said Franchetti.
To that end, Franchetti contacted Rehoboth Beach Commissioner Mark
Aguirre to encourage that city officials and RBPD follow up on the violent
encounter.
"This is something that is clearly much more serious than
disorderly conduct," said Aguirre, who has been in contact with many
of those involved. "However, I’d definitely have to say it should
not be considered a gay bashing either, that involves a surprise and even
premeditated attack. As they have all acknowledged, there were
opportunities for the situation to be diffused. I understand their
frustration and I’m not going to condemn them for meeting force with
force but we all need to be mindful and careful of how we handle these
situations," said Aguirre.
Both Aguirre and Banks asserted that while the turbulent incident is
alarming, it is not indicative of the relationships between the gay and
lesbian population and the straight population of Rehoboth Beach.
"Fortunately this isn’t the norm for Rehoboth. We are a diverse
community which welcomes everyone. The fact is we have conflicting stories
and when a fight involves intoxicated persons it doesn’t help. We hope
to have this case closed within two weeks and we are asking for
input," said Banks.
To provide witness information on this incident contact the Rehoboth
Beach Police Department at 302-227-2577.