Don’t Fail Me Now
You’re in the heat of the moment; you’re fumbling around in the
dark. Most of us have had moments l
ike
that. You hear a snap or feel a pull. The moment is temporarily delayed.
For some, the moment has come and gone. Don’t you hate it when you do
the right thing and use a condom for sex and it either breaks or comes
off? Here are seven tips for making sure that condom goes the distance:
• Use the right lube: Only water and silicone based lubes should be
used with latex condoms.
• Use enough lube: Studies have shown that guys who use plenty of
lube, both on the condom and in their partner have much fewer condom
breakages than guys who just put lube on the condom alone.
• Use the right size condom for your body part: Using a condom that
is too small can make it more likely to break. Using one that is too big
may make it more likely to slip off. Condoms come in a range of sizes so
you can find one that is right for you.
• Change the condom after 30 minutes: Just like you, condoms can get
worn out after having sex for some time. Condoms become more likely to
break the longer you use them.
• Roll it—don’t stretch it: Rolling down from the tip puts a lot
less stress on the condom, meaning it stays stronger while you are having
sex. Roll the condom all the way down to limit the chance that it will
come off.
• Just use one condom at a time: You might think that using two
condoms will give you twice the protection—it won’t. But it can cause
friction which makes them break
• Store your condoms in a safe place: Condoms need to be kept away
from damp, hot
places and out of direct sunlight. So, don’t put them in your car or
keep them in your wallet. By the way, check the expiration date. Condoms
don’t last forever, you know!
Sal Seeley is Program Director of CAMPsafe, an HIV/AIDS program
funded through a contract with the Delaware Division of Public Health.
E-mail salvatoreseeley@aol.com.