What a Dilemma!
"I was in my late thirties before I finally became pregnant— and
then only because my husband was at NIH and knew all the right people with
all the latest medical info. They used some experimental techniques which
worked and now I’m in my third month. Everything was going well until
last evening when my husband brought home the test results from my latest
visit to the reproductive health doc that I’ve been seeing.
The good news was that our little boy (the sex of our munchkin was the
first thing that we knew for sure) doesn’t have Down’s Syndrome,
Huntington’s or a slew of the other conditions that they test for
nowadays. But the bad news is that the genetic tests indicate he might be
gay."
That scenario is the plot line of Twilight of the Golds, an
early-nineties play by Jonathan Tolins, which I saw in its Kennedy Center
run more than a decade ago. Marlo Thomas played the role of Mrs. Gold,
wife of the NIH researcher. Sadly, neither the star power of Danny Thomas’
daughter, nor the clever staging that linked background lighting
suggestive of the flames of hell and background music from Wagner’s
opera Twilight of the Gods, was enough to save the play or the subsequent
movie from the dust bin.
The play’s premise of a genetic test for homosexuality in the newborn
and thus a parental choice for an abortion may have been ahead of its
time. In the play, the pregnant protagonist and her NIH researcher husband
choose to abort the fetus rather than bring another gay male into the
world despite the fact that Thomas’ fictional brother, David, is
gay and has been her life-long confidant.
But it seems as if now reality is catching up with fiction.
In his early March blog, R. Albert Mohler, Jr., president of the
Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, KY stated, "If a
biological basis is found (for homosexuality), and if a prenatal test is
then developed, and if a successful treatment to reverse the sexual
orientation to heterosexual is ever developed, we would support its use as
we would unapologetically support the use of any appropriate means to
avoid sexual temptation and the inevitable effects of sin." In later
interviews he said he was referring to a possible hormonal treatment and
not arguing for genetic therapy. He said that he would also support other
hormonal modifications. "If we found out there was a prenatal test to
show that a baby would have poor eyesight but a hormonal treatment…would
restore full eyesight, what parent would not use that? That’s not
genetic treatment. We do want healthy babies."
I find it absolutely astounding that a religious leader, the president
of a prestigious seminary, would display his ignorance and his bigotry so
blatantly in public. In Moehler’s view homosexuality equates to poor
eyesight—a bothersome physical defect to be corrected. To him it’s
preferable to mess around with a fetus in utero with hormones, as long as
it can’t be considered abortion, rather than to accept the sexual
orientation assigned by a Higher Power which Moehler claims to represent.
Perhaps he’s forgotten, or chooses to ignore, the fact that in a
previous use of hormones intended for a good purpose —to prolong
pregnancies threatened by a spontaneous abortion—the female offspring
ended up being at high risk of cervical cancer a generation later. But I
suppose if your primary goal is the elimination of homosexuality, risk to
the fetus is immaterial. I’m sure that Moehler would reject the
possibility that naturally occurring spontaneous abortion might be
construed as proof of divine approval of abortion in the first place.
In Moehler’s scheme of things Michelangelo, Tchaikovsky, Shakespeare,
Lenny Bernstein, E.M. Forrester, Tennessee Williams and scores of church
fathers would all go down the tubes, victims of a hormonal patch. Moehler
wants "healthy babies" and is willing to risk the unknown
side-effects of powerful chemical (hormonal) therapies in order to get
what he wants. The possibility that sexual orientation, whether gay or
straight, is a gift from the Creator to be enjoyed and used responsibly,
is a concept beyond Moehler’s capacity. It’s okay to believe in
Moehler’s God who does miracles but not in One who deviates from Moehler’s
interpretation of the way the world should be. I find that approach
astounding, if not blasphemous.
An alternative approach, and a more practical one at that, might be to
divert all the research dollars dedicated to finding the so-called
"gay gene" and redirect that cash toward discovery of the
bigotry gene, the fear gene or the hate gene which would put future
Moehler’s out of their misery. Or, perhaps more realistically, those
research funds should go into programs that teach tolerance and acceptance
of diversity—even to the faculty and students of Moehler’s Southern
Baptist Seminary.