Who was Elsa Gidlow?
Writer Elsa Gidlow—dubbed the "Poet Warrior"—is regarded
as a lesbian-feminist pioneer, and was an active participant in many of
the San Francisco Bay Area’s cultural and political movements over the
course of nearly six decades.
Gidlow was born on December 29, 1898, in Yorkshire, England. Her family—which
would eventually include seven younger siblings—emigrated to Quebec when
she was a girl. Though she came from a poor family and had little formal
education, Gidlow later recalled that she aspired from an early age to
become an independent woman and a poet.
As a teenager, Gidlow moved with her family to Montreal, where she
worked as a typist and took classes at McGill College. It was during this
time that she had her first romantic relationships with women. A few years
later, Gidlow moved to New York City, where she lived in Greenwich Village
and worked as poetry editor for the progressive political magazine Pearson’s.
Throughout her life, she would support herself— and sometimes also
family and friends—as a freelance journalist and creative writer.
Gidlow lived an openly lesbian life long before an organized gay
movement existed in the United States. In 1923, she published On a Grey
Thread, widely considered to be the first book of lesbian love poetry in
North America. (The work was expanded and republished as Sapphic Songs, by
Gidlow’s own Druid Heights Press, in 1976 and again in 1982.) In the
late 1920s, Gidlow briefly lived in Europe, where she met other lesbian
expatriates, including pioneering author Radclyffe Hall.
In the late 1920s, Gidlow moved to San Francisco. She first lived in
the bohemian enclave of North Beach, and was friends with people who would
become leading lights of the Beatnik scene in the 1950s. She later
purchased a ramshackle property in the redwood forest of Marin (now part
of Muir Woods National Monument). There, she established Druid Heights, an
"unintentional community," in her words, which became a haven
for writers, philosophers, and other creative and eccentric types.
"We consider the artist a special sort of person," she once
wrote. "It is more likely that each of us is a special sort of
artist."
Gidlow lived with her long-term partner, Violet Henry-Anderson—whom
friends called "Tommy" and Gidlow nicknamed "Panther"—for
13 years, until Tommy died of cancer in the late 1930s. Even in the
pre-liberation era, Gidlow later recalled, "We were profoundly sure
of our right to be as we were, to love and live in our chosen way, we were
happy in it." Several years later, Gidlow began a relationship with a
Caribbean woman, Isabel Grenfell Quallo. The two lived together for about
a decade, but Gidlow never ceased to cherish her independence, vowing
"never again to permit love to bind me, nor myself to bind a
lover." In her 70s, Gidlow had a shorter relationship with a woman
some 50 years her junior.
Gidlow was as unabashedly open about her radical politics as she was
about her sexuality. An activist on numerous fronts, she was a member of
the first U.S. lesbian organization, the Daughters of Bilitis, in the
1950s. During the McCarthy era, she was accused of being a Communist
sympathizer and questioned by the House Un-American Activities Committee.
However, as revealed in recently released records of the hearings, Gidlow
told the committee that she was an anarchist and considered Marxism to be
an oppressive ideology.
In the 1960s and 1970s, Gidlow was an active participant in the
psychedelic subculture, the antiwar movement, and the New Age and
alternative spirituality communities, embracing both paganism and Eastern
religions. With Alan and Jano Watts, she co-founded the Society of
Comparative Philosophy, which helped popularize Buddhism in the United
States.
By the time lesbian feminism emerged, Gidlow was already in her 70s,
and was soon hailed as movement foremother; her standing was strengthened
with the publication, in 1975, of Ask No Man Pardon: The Philosophi-cal
Significance of Being Lesbian. Gidlow, however, was never a separatist,
stating in her autobiography, "I was, and am, first a human
person," she wrote, "then a woman, then a woman whose primary
identification and loyalty is with women as lovers and friends."
Over the course of her career, Gidlow authored a dozen books, mostly
poetry. In her final years, she continued to write and tend her garden at
Druid Heights. After experiencing a series of strokes, she died in June
1986, just a month after the publication of her autobiography.
Summing up Gidlow’s 88 years, Celeste West, her long-time editor,
wrote, "Elsa fought life-long against class privilege, organized
religion, and sexism, while fighting for all varieties of love and
beauty."
Liz Highleyman is a freelance writer and editor who has written
widely on health, sexuality, and politics. She can be reached at PastOut@qsyndicate.com.