From Margin to Center
One of the things I love about living in the Rehoboth area is that we
have the best of both worlds: One may enjoy the leisurely pace of life at
the beach and the rustic beauty of the country, or, in just two hours,
experience the diversity and excitement of cities such as Washington,
Baltimore, or Philadelphia. A commonplace of postmodern society that
becomes much more evident in an urban setting is the stark contrast
between the "haves" and the "have-nots." (Yes, Mr.
President, there ARE still have-nots in our nation.) While we have a
spectrum of economic levels here at the shore, nevertheless, in the city
this is much more visible and harder to ignore. Urban life offers a
distinctive view of what many social critics call "marginality,"
but I don’t think we need to go very far to find marginality.
Most people are, to a certain extent, marginal in some area of their
lives. The well-to-do, materially successful, white man may be overlooked
for promotion because of his sexual orientation. The lesbian in the power
suit might still be expected to make the coffee. The pillar of the
community is shunned by his church because of his commitment to helping
people with HIV. Even within marginal communities, there is marginality:
Socially prominent and "respectable" segments of the queer
community shun and deride drag queens, leather folk, and the differently
sexual, and vice-versa. Everyone, on some level, seems to want to be in
the center, on the fast track, or in the know—most often because we have
been taught that this is the place to be, frequently so that we can have
someone on the fringes, less fortunate than ourselves, to look down upon.
Need this be so? I think not. I believe Spirit calls us to reclaim and
cherish the margins of our existence. The margins are where diversity
thrives, creativity flourishes, and integrity reigns. Korean theologian
Jung Young Lee, in his book Marginality: The Key to Multicultural Theology
(Fortress, 1995), remembers a nature walk he once took:
One beautiful autumn afternoon, I decided to stop at a pond along the
path. The calm water of the pond mirrored the beautiful autumn foliage.
Sitting quietly on an old stump, I observed the peaceful pond. Suddenly a
huge fish jumped up at the center of the pond, creating an enormous sound
of water and powerful waves that spread in all directions. The waves moved
to the edge of the pond next to where I was sitting. The beautiful
concentric circles of waves lapped endlessly toward the shore. When the
waves finally reached the edge, however, they began to ebb back to the
center from which they originated. Their backward movement was an amazing
discovery for me.... Why [in the past] did I not pay attention to ebbs
returning to the center, but noted only the waves coming out to the edge?
Why was I interested only in something happening at and from the center?
Why did I neglect what happened at and from the margin? (p. 30)
Lee notes that when the waves return to the center from the margins, a
new center is created. The center is changed because the waves interacted
with the edges of the pond. The margins, which he had formerly ignored,
actually affect what happens to and at the center. And so it is with life.
Those whom society, church, and state have relegated to the margins can
affect what happens at the center, if they/we will keep on keeping on. As
any drag diva will tell you, the "fringe" can make or break an
ensemble; accessorizing is everything. Great women and men of all
spiritual traditions have made a difference because they chose to seek the
edges of their world, to interact with and learn from the margins in order
to effect change at the center—people like Jesus, the Buddha, Confucius,
Lao-tzu, Francis of Assisi, Mother Teresa, the Dalai Lama, and Martin
Luther King. These people are saints because they realized that the key to
wholistic, healthy, spiritual living is to live in both worlds (margin and
center), without being bound by either of them. They stand in contrast to
those such as Jerry Falwell, Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger, and Pat Robertson,
who live in opulence at the expense of and on the backs of the
marginalized.
When the margins are able to affect the center, a new marginality is
created that transcends both the center and the margins, a harmony of
difference that Buddhists call nirvana and Christians the reign of God.
This harmony of difference is Spirit’s intention for humankind. Its
opposite, and perhaps the greatest sin of our time, is
"in/difference"—the unwillingness to be different, the
inability to appreciate difference. This indifference leads to boredom
which results in inactivity. The center’s status quo remains intact, and
the margins stay unheard and invisible.
Where will next summer find you—at the margins, or at the center?
Making a difference through difference, or guarding the privilege afforded
by the status quo? Think about it.