Relevance and Morality: The Game of Us vs.
Them
Two years have passed since the horror of 9/11/2001. Much has happened,
but have we as a people learned much? I’m not sure. True, we are assured
by the reigning politicos that "the war on terror" is proceeding
apace and that the world is a safer, more democratic place because of the
efforts of the United States. Be that as it may, have the past two years
yielded any moral, spiritual, or religious insights for us as a people?
Again, I’m not sure.
In my profession, it is a given that I participate in ongoing
education. I try to read a variety of topics—theology, ethics,
sexuality, current events (not to mention my guilty pleasure, the murder
mystery). As I reflect on these past two years, two of the books I have
read recently come to mind. One is as old as I am and rather traditional;
the other is brand new and very progressive. Both contribute to the
discussion of spirituality in the wake of 9/11.
Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel, a philosopher of religion and, until his
death, Professor of Ethics and Mysticism at the Jewish Theological
Seminary of America, notes:
"Religion declined not because it was refuted, but because it
became irrelevant, dull, oppressive, insipid. When faith is completely
replaced by creed, worship by discipline, love by habit; when the crisis
of today is ignored because of the splendor of the past; when faith
becomes an heirloom rather than a living fountain; when religion speaks
only in the name of authority rather than with the voice of compassion—its
message becomes meaningless. Religion is an answer to [humanity]’s
ultimate questions." (God’s Search for Man; Farrar, Straus and
Giroux, 1955; p. 3)
Our ultimate questions must address our context in the universe. When
spiritual systems cease being contextual and become monolithic, then they
become irrelevant. Heschel proposes that situational thinking must have
its starting point not in "doubt, detachment, but amazement, awe,
involvement" (p. 5). We will not obtain answers from pessimism, but
only from optimism.
Heschel’s three emotions of amazement, awe, and involvement
correspond to his three suggestions for envisioning any true religion: Awe
is how we approach God, the source of all that is; amazement is how we
respond to the universe, God’s gift to us; and involvement is how we
relate to those around us, our fellow travelers in this journey called
life. Our spiritual path, in order to be relevant, must help us address
God, the universe, and our neighbor. If it doesn’t, it needs to be
changed. Most traditional religions are really good at talking about God,
directing us to thank God for the blessings we receive while
simultaneously remaining afraid of God; but these same religions fall
short when it comes to teaching us how to protect and preserve the
universe or treat our fellows creatures with respect and compassion. If
Heschel were alive today, I daresay he would find many of the world’s
faith traditions irrelevant.
Dr. James Morone, Professor of Political Science at Brown University,
suggests that religious fervor in the United States is tied to morality, a
legacy of our Puritan forebears, and, further, that this morality has
fostered the ever-present American need to develop categories of
"us" and "them." From the 1600s to the present, from
the American Indians and witches of the 17th and 18th centuries, to Al-Quaida
and Saddam in the 21st century, we have had to demonize some people in
order to feel the we are in control of our environment. If we can shift
the blame for problems onto some tangible "other," we will feel
more safe and secure.
Morone points out that this was as true of Governor Winthrop branding
innocent women as witches out to subvert American morality as it is of
President Bush describing an "axis of evil" at the heart of
America’s terrors today.
"Generous visions of inclusion face off against hard
prejudices.... The dark side of the American spirit raises a host of
questions. Just who gets attacked? When? Why? And how does prejudice sneak
past the vaunted Bill of Rights?...How do Americans get around their
constitutional safeguards and repress rivals, strangers, and scary others?
Morality. We are bound to honor our fellow citizens and their rights,
unless the neighbors turn out to be bad. Then they can be—and often are—stripped
of their lives, their liberty, and their legally acquired property."
(Hellfire Nation: The Politics of Sin in American History; Yale University
Press, 2003; p. 8)
Muslims and Americans of Arab descent can certainly tell us what it is
like to live amid suspicion and pointed fingers, but they are not alone.
They can join with Japanese-Americans who were interned behind barbed
wire, African Americans who are harassed for walking in their own
neighborhood, and gays and lesbians who are denied the right to marry or
to be their partner’s next-of-kin. Each of these groups, along with
feminists, Jews, Catholics, and supposed communists, have at one time or
another been the target of an American morality bred in traditional
Christian churches and fostered by biblical family values, even though we
are assured that there is a separation of church and state in this
country.
Perhaps Americans should concentrate less on the American pastime of
other-baiting and the Christian values of discrimination and
judgmentalness and instead embrace Rabbi Heschel’s paradigm of
amazement, awe, and involvement. If we were really in awe of the creative
power we call God, we would not want to denigrate or destroy any of God’s
children. If we were truly amazed at the universe we call home, we would
hesitate to drop bombs or deprive nations of food and running water. If we
were effectively involved with the human family as integrally
interconnected, we would figure out ways to care for one another, to
provide for one another, and to protect one another, without resorting to
discrimination, dehumanization, and outright atrocity in the name of
American morality.
We live in a place named "room for all"—Rehoboth. Can we
really say there is room for all? Or is there only room for those who hold
the same moral values we do and who will not diminish our property values?
How can we stimulate awe, increase amazement, and revivify involvement
with all people, not just the ones who look, think, or act like us?
The Rev. Tom Bohache, Pastor of Metropolitan Community Church of
Rehoboth, is a speaker, teacher, and writer on the intersection of
sexuality and spirituality. E-mail him at