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Out and About in Delaware's State Parks

by Stephen Schilly


Speaking Out
As a 20-year employee of the state park system, I have had numerous opportunities in my career to observe visitors and interact with the general public. For the most part, these experiences have been positive. The majority of people seem to view what we do as an important public service and appreciate our efforts to preserve and protect the natural resources. Of course, that’s not to say that we haven’t had to suffer our share of criticism, as well. There is always someone who thinks we can do things "better" or at least "differently" than we do them. Considering our parks have over 4 million visitors annually, the number of complaints we receive is actually surprisingly small. Still, it is never easy to stand back and listen to criticism. It took me a long time to learn that complaints can indeed be constructive. In fact, I’ve witnessed many positive improvements come as a result of complaints. A little self-examination never hurts anyone, including a state agency!

So exactly what is this all about? In August, the Division of Parks and Recreation came under intense criticism when the morning talk show host, Dan Gaffney, at radio station WGMD decided to make us his topic of discussion. Specifically, he raised the issue of the Delaware Pride organization conducting its annual Pridefest at Gordons Pond. Gaffney asked his audience if they thought it was appropriate for their tax dollars to be spent to support or allow this type of event at the park. He further questioned numerous aspects of the event including sponsors, banners, vendors and entertainment. For example, he asked should a lube company, a primary sponsor of the event, be permitted to fly a banner? Should vendors with "fetish" items be allowed? Should drag performers be permitted? Comments on these and other aspects of the event were tossed out by Gaffney in an effort to provoke his audience.


(Families decorating pumpkins at Pridefest 2002)

The response was swift and very vocal. Unfortunately and predictably, many of the comments voiced were uninformed and homophobic. One caller attributed HIV specifically to the gay community and worried about the potential transmission of the disease at Gordons Pond as a result of mosquitoes! Other callers criticized everyone from our Division Director to the Governor for allowing Pridefest to take place in the park. There was even discussion encouraging protests of the event.

To say the least, as a park employee and member of the gay community, I found the entire broadcast to be disappointing and offensive. I respect the importance of freedom of speech, but I believe that right comes with responsibility, as well. Gaffney certainly understands his role as talk show host. He expertly demonstrated his ability to take a topic and provoke discussion. But I personally objected to his approach of "shoot first, ask questions later." If he had questions concerning the event, there were many simple avenues for asking for further information. A quick call to the park would have informed him the event was not being supported by tax dollars. In fact, the event is treated the same as any special event on park facilities requiring a permit to be secured and appropriate fees to be paid by the organization. Questions about sponsors, vendors and entertainment could easily have been directed to the Delaware Pride organization. Of course, getting the information up front would make the discussion of the topic less sensationalistic and potentially less interesting for the audience. It’s certainly easier to toss a topic out there and see what develops. Unfortunately, that method does not encourage a reasonable and informed discussion to occur.

Gaffney continued discussion on the topic over several days. Our Division Director, Charles Salkin, appeared as a guest on the program to clarify a number of the issues. He made it very clear to the audience that our Division welcomes all groups into our parks provided they comply with our rules and regulations. Anyone wishing to conduct a special event in the park must go through the same application process for approval. Any visitors who find a particular group or event "offensive" are welcome to go elsewhere to avoid interacting with the event.

The bottom line is the same standards and rules apply to all people. Isn’t that the way it should be?

I don’t normally like to use this column as a platform for expressing my personal views and opinions. However, I felt this was a special situation that warranted discussion. I am disappointed in WGMD and the manner in which Dan Gaffney conducted discussions about Pridefest. I do not believe the discussions were in any way balanced and informative. While they may have the constitutional right to have such one sided discussions, I do not believe it serves the public in any positive way. I have no objection to discussing any topic. I would simply hope the host would attempt to become informed about the topic before inviting comment from listeners. That’s my opinion. I guess you can say I am exercising my right to freedom of speech!

Nature’s Best Bets
If you are looking for fun and exciting ways to spend your spare time, why not check out the Seaside Nature Center at Cape Henlopen State Park? The Center is open year round.

For more information on park programs, contact the Seaside Nature Center at 302-645-6852.


Stephen Schilly is Park Operations Administrator Delaware Division of Parks and Recreation. He may be reached at sschilly@state.de.us.

LETTERS From CAMP Rehoboth, Vol. 13 No. 13  September 19, 2003.

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