In
September 2005, CAMP Rehoboth was given $10,000 from the Robert V. Hauff
and John F. Dreeland Foundation. (Shown are Milton Gordon, CAMP
Development Director Beth Fitton, and Bill Hromnak.) Foundation trustee,
Milton Gordon, had spoken to their committee on behalf of CAMP Rehoboth.
Milton and his partner recently relocated to Rehoboth Beach and we asked
him to provide us with a glimpse of the two men for whom the Foundation is
named.
You don’t have to play the lottery to be a winner. You just have to
know someone who did.
I first met Robert and John in 1971 when I moved into my new coop. They
met on a transatlantic voyage on the SS France in 1963, and spent most of
their weekends together since then. Their lifestyles were so different
that if they lived together, their relationship most likely would not have
lasted. One of the things they had in common was taking cruises.
John was a homebody. He spent much of his time taking care of his
father who went blind in his later years. One of his favorite past-times
was watching old movies late at night.
Robert’s mother died during child birth and he was raised by an aunt
and uncle. As a young man he skated with Sonia Hennie and was part of the
troop that appeared on her television special.
From the time lotto started in New York, Robert and John always played.
It was September 1987 when they won. They were now able to live the life
of their dreams. A new car, new apartments, taking cruises, driving to
Atlantic City to gamble, everything anyone could ask for. The nicest thing
of all was they remained the same. They shared their new wealth by taking
their friends on a 1991 RSVP cruise; they even took Bill and I and two
other friends on a second cruise in 1992.
As I said, you don’t have to play lotto to be a winner.
In 1994, the doctors found that John had an aneurysm on his brain.
During the operation it burst before the doctors could reach it, and
although John survived he was never quite the same. His sense of humor was
gone; he was a different person. All that money and there was nothing that
could bring the old John back. For the next five years Robert did what he
could. John was never left alone. Then it happened. In February 1999,
while out for dinner one night, John had a second aneurysm, this time it
was fatal. In less than an hour he was dead. Robert was never the same
after that. Seven months later he died of a broken heart.
The foundation was created from the balance of the lottery. As I said
before, you don’t have to play lotto to win. Over the years many
charities were winners. Christa House (provides Hospice-like surroundings
for those dying of AIDS), Maria’s Kitchen (soup kitchen attached to The
Church of St Paul the Apostle), City Harvest Inc., the Catholic Guild for
the Blind, Lambda Legal, American Foundation for AIDS Research (AMFAR),
Gay Men’s Health Crisis, and thanks to my fellow trustees, CAMP
Rehoboth.