The Time of Reckoning Is Now
In a postmodern world it often seems that religion and spirituality are
passé. Go to church? How uncool! Read scripture? Puleeze! Pray? Who knows
if it does any good? The queer community has good reason to feel
disenchanted by traditional religion, for most churches have
disenfranchised GLBT people—or at least "out" ones. Even
allegedly welcoming congregations turn out to be so only on a case-by-case
basis, since this welcoming and affirming attitude generally evaporates
outside of a particular locale and does not apply to the denomination as a
whole. So a person of rainbow sensibilities must either have selective
hearing and tunnel vision or leave organized religion behind. These are
the folks who in blasé fashion claim to have outgrown religion and grown
beyond God.
But, as I’ve said before, why must we abdicate faith issues and
surrender them to the Religious (un)Right? Why must we sit back and allow
the rallying cry of "moral values" to be used against us? How
can we in good conscious approve, by our silence and inactivity, the
campaign of fear that won the recent presidential election? The person who
prevailed in the red states did so by putting them on red alert that gay
marriage was about to destroy the country and its Christian-based values.
I would submit that if more GLBT people were not in the closet about their
morality, their faith, and yes, their religious convictions, we would see
a difference. Well, folks, we have four years to turn things around!
Perhaps a good start is with Thanksgiving this week. I’ve heard Oprah
Winfrey say on more than one occasion that if the only prayer you ever say
is "thank you," that’s enough. A wonderful start to a new
attitude is gratitude. Say "thank you" to the Divine this
holiday, and extend that attitude into December. Make
Christmas/Hanukkah/Kwanzaa a time of faithful appreciation of those who
are dear and of renewed thanks to Spirit that we live in a country that
honors religious pluralism. And as we head into 2005, let’s all make a
New Year’s resolution to not be as complacent about the state of our
souls—even if some say it’s uncool.
Happy Thanksgiving! Season’s Greetings! Happy New Year!
The Rev. Tom Bohache, Pastor of Metropolitan Community Church of
Rehoboth, is a speaker, teacher, and writer on the intersection of
sexuality and spirituality. E-mail him at