Holiday Memories
Another holiday season has managed to "sneak up" on me
again! I had the best of intentions to be more prepared this year.
Unfortunately, somewhere along the way I got sidetracked with other
concerns. I haven’t even thought about gift shopping...definitely not
one of my favorite pastimes. As far as holiday decorating is concerned,
well that is my partner Bob’s department, not mine! Normally, I have
things more under control and organized. I think something needs to happen
fast to get me in the holiday spirit!
To be honest, I love this time of year. It definitely brings out the
sentimental side of me. I often find myself thinking back on holidays
past, remembering family and friends who make my life so special. Every
holiday season is special, but last Christmas was especially memorable.
Bob and I spent the holiday with our good friends, Matt and Frank, in
Paris. We had a wonderful week exploring the sights of that beautiful
city. Without a doubt, my favorite memory was Christmas Eve. We had
considerable trouble locating an open restaurant that night for dinner.
With few options available, we ended up at a Chinese restaurant.
Definitely not my idea of holiday fare! After a leisurely meal, we stopped
at a tiny corner bar before heading to the cathedral of Notre Dame for the
midnight service. The bar was quaint and unassuming. The friendly staff
informed us they were having a drag show later that evening. Bob and Matt
quickly decided the cathedral wasn’t for them and opted to stay for the
show. To say the least, I was not too happy with this decision. Here we
were in this wonderful, romantic city on Christmas Eve and my partner was
dumping me for a drag show! There was no changing Bob and Matt’s minds.
Reluctantly, Frank and I left for the cathedral where we waited in the
cold behind police barricades with several thousand anxious people. After
more than an hour of being pushed and shoved by the throngs, we finally
made it to the front of the line where we had to pass through a metal
detector before entering the church! I was really wondering if it was all
worth the trouble. I quickly got my answer as we walked in. What a
glorious sight! The majestic building bathed in candlelight was decked out
in holiday finery. The shadows from the flickering candles added a
mysterious power to the scene. It was truly awe inspiring and more than
worth the effort. Frank and I welcomed in Christmas in that amazing place.
We later joined Bob and Matt back at the bar. They apparently had a
"festive" time of their own! When I thought about it later, I
realized that in a sense, we both went to "drag" shows that
night. Whether in the bar or in the cathedral, each of us had a wonderful
experience and built memories that will last a lifetime!
Unusual Holiday Shopping Ideas
Are you searching for that unique holiday gift? If so, why not pick up
an annual park pass or a distinctive gift item from one of our State Park
Nature Stores? In the resort area, the Seaside Nature Center at Cape
Henlopen State Park has lots of unique items to choose from. With a
decidedly nautical theme, there are carved shore birds, wooden replica
sailing ships, beautiful hand painted ornaments featuring area lighthouses
or maybe a mousepad featuring the photography of Keith Clancy. Nature
stores are also found in many of our northern park offices including
Bellevue, Brandywine Creek and White Clay Creek. These locations feature
books, candles, park shirts and hats and nature explorer sets for the
kids. You’ll find unusual items to satisfy just about everyone on your
shopping list! And best of all, you’ll be supporting our state parks.
The proceeds from these stores go directly to the operation and
maintenance of the parks. We hope you’ll come and see what our stores
have to offer!
Another unique gift idea for those who love Delaware’s Outdoors is a
subscription to Outdoor
Delaware! This magazine is the official
educational publication of the Delaware Department of Natural Resources
and Environmental Control. For almost 50 years, it has been dedicated to
the sound conservation of Delaware’s wildlife and other interrelated
natural resources and the environment we share with them.
Four times a year, subscribers can enjoy 32 pages of outstanding color
photography and articles on state parks, fish and wildlife, outdoor
recreation opportunities and important environmental issues.
Available by subscription only, Outdoor Delaware is just $6 per year.
Checks can be sent to Outdoor Delaware magazine, DNREC, 89 Kings Highway,
Dover, DE 19901. For more information, contact Marjorie Witherspoon,
circulation manager, at 302-739-4506.
For yourself or your favorite nature lover, it makes a great stocking
stuffer!
Looking Forward to 2004
This past year will be remembered for many important events that touched
all our lives...an unusually wet summer, hurricane Isabel, the poor
economy, and most importantly, the war in Iraq. Every year has its
challenges, but 2003 seemed especially difficult. Even with all these
problems, I can’t help but reflect on how fortunate we are to live in
such a great community and country. My thoughts and prayers are with those
brave men and women who will not be home for the holidays, as well as for
their families and friends. My hope is that the new year will bring peace
in the world and the safe return of these loved ones.
As I wrap things up for 2003, I want to thank everyone for their
ongoing support of this column. In particular, I would like to thank CAMP
Rehoboth for the opportunity to share information about our state parks.
Thanks also to everyone who took the time to email me their questions and
ideas. Your comments and support are greatly appreciated.
Nature’s Best Bets
If you are looking for fun activities, here are a number of "best
bets" at the Seaside Nature Center in Cape Henlopen State Park. Call
302-645-6852 for details:
Delaware Breakwater Quarantine Station • Saturdays, December 13,
January 17, February 21, 1 p.m.
At the end of the 19th century thousands of immigrants fled poor
economic conditions in Europe by emigrating to America. The Delaware
Breakwater Quarantine Station was established in 1884 to protect the
cities of Wilmington and Philadelphia from contagion. Come learn about
this facility and the trials and tribulations the occupants dealt with
during their hopes of entering a prosperous land.
Junction Breakwater - A Bridge to the Beach • Sat., Dec. 6, 10
a.m.
Hike the newest addition of the trail system of Cape Henlopen State
Park. View the winter woodlands and Lewes-Rehoboth Canal along this scenic
journey. Pre-registration is required. Call for directions to meet at the
Wolfe House.
Wild About Winter • Saturday, December 20, 1 p.m.
Bring the tots to celebrate the cheerful spirit of winter! Children
ages 5-10 are invited to take part in learning about adaptations of plants
and animals that allow them to survive during the winter months. We’ll
make a festive craft to take home to celebrate this restful season for
nature.
Winter Twigging • Saturday, January 10, 1 p.m.
Learn to identify winter trees by carefully examining their bark and
twigs, with the help of a field guide and hand lens. Join us for a close
look at some of the park’s most common trees.
Delaware’s Winter Gulls • Saturday, January 24, 10 a.m.
Learn the fine points of gull identification through a slide
presentation and then head out into the park to test your new skills.
Stephen Schilly is Park Operations Administrator for the Delaware
Division of Parks and Recreation. He may be reached at