Pride 2023
We’re Here and We’re Queer—with Loads of Fun Gear
Pride isn’t just a parade in June anymore. It’s a whole vibe in these 2020s—a full-blown aesthetic that infiltrates our lifestyles year-round. Kick off this new season with these fresh finds designed with us in mind.
Stonewall ’69 Candle
A torch still burns bright for LGBTQ+ equality—even though these dark times sometimes hinder its light—but you can stand vigil with Kendi Lux’s soy-blend, lemon-leaf-and-jasmine-scented Stonewall ’69 candle commemorating the movement-defining riot that blazed our first path. $17.50, KendiLux.com
Rainbow Earring Studs
Sometimes less is more—yep, even at Pride—and Alexis Jae’s rainbow stud earrings (constructed of recycled gold and ethically sourced gems) are an understated statement piece that give your lobes low-key sparkle without clamoring for desperate attention. Wear both or split ’em up to share with a friend. $135, AlexisJae.com
Rainbow Rolling Papers
Puff, puff, pass the pride—legally, of course—when you share your supply wrapped in Papers+Ink Studio’s prismatic, organic, unbleached hemp rolling papers available in eight styles, including Love Lines, Tie Dye Fantastic, Cheeky Checkers, and We Say Gay!, among others. $14-$25, PapersAndInk.com
Personalized Pronouns
Note Kit. The art of suggestion isn’t lost on queer-owned Nice Paper Goods, which offers a first-of-its-kind personalized pronoun note kit—an all-in-one stationery set complete with 10 cards, envelopes, and USA Forever stamps that never expire, and printed with your preferred pronouns under your chosen name. $32, NicePaperGoods.com
Calvin Klein Pride Jocks. Cyndi Lauper didn’t anticipate you prancing around in your barely-there Calvins when she invited you to show your true colors, but Klein’s Pride Edit five-pack thong sets in a spectrum of flashy colors are practically begging for a remix. $42, CalvinKlein.com
Rainbow Coin Purse
Pocketless at the parade? Par for the course when you prefer to party in sequined banana hammocks, but Pop of Confetti has you covered with its cute-AF rainbow seed-bead coin purse that stashes your contraband…and condoms (because safe sex is still sexy, y’all). $32, PopOfConfetti.com
Rene Jacket. It’s hard to choose just one Pride-primed piece from Orttu’s expansive collection of sophisti-sensual wearable art, but our money’s on its mesmerizing, double-breasted Rene jacket in deep black, featuring uniquely sculpted sleeves and a stunning geometric “laser light” print in high-contrast yellow-gold, so you can show up in the VIP as a status whoa instead of status quo. $450, Orttu.com
Dentata Ring
Teeth—the 2007 horror-comedy about a good Christian girl with a mean set of chompers in her ‘sacred place’—was probably enough to turn a few guys gay, but many feminists have reclaimed the vagina dentata myth as a symbol of pride and empowerment. All belts are off with KIL NYC’s Dentata ring, featuring a spiked mouth design that curves around the finger, mimicking the way a Victorian chastity belt would have been worn. Even better, 10 percent of each sale will support Her Justice, an organization dedicated to helping impoverished women in New York City. $150, KILNYC.com
‘Let the Light Shine In’ Boxer Briefs
Hang loose (but not too loose) in SAXX’s super-soft ‘Let the Light Shine In’ boxer brief designed by queer artist Carlos Oliveras Colom who tapped into his LGBTQ+ and Afro-Latinx experiences to create this colorful, curvy, comfortable pair of skivs that give off more than a few unassigned vibes. $34, SAXXUnderwear.com
‘Rainbow Parenting’ Guide
Pride starts at home—it was only born in the streets out of necessity—and books like Lindz Amer’s Rainbow Parenting: Your Guide to Raising Queer Kids and Their Allies not only serve as a sign of how far we’ve come but also provides effective tools for understanding, accepting and respecting LGBTQ+ minds and bodies—which is all we really want anyway. $19, US.Macmillan.com. ▼
Mikey Rox is an award-winning journalist and LGBT lifestyle expert whose work has been published in more than 100 outlets across the world. Connect with Mikey on Instagram @mikeyroxtravels.