LETTERS From CAMP Rehoboth |
CAMP Safe:Down But Not Out |
The staff of the sexual health counseling program of CAMPsafe has seen an increase of men asking questions about sexual dysfunction. What has surprised the staff is that many of these men are having unsafe sex because of erectile dysfunction issues. Many of these men come to us with concerns about not using condoms because they can't maintain an erection or they need to use drugs/alcohol as a way to keep things flowing. The truth is that most men experience problems during sex at some time in their life and when they do, they don't know what to do about it. Instead of freaking out, there are some explanations and options for men.
According to sex expert David Fisher, the term sexual dysfunction covers everything from loss of libido (sex-drive), to problems with maintaining an erection, and addiction to sex. Mr. Fisher states that "gay men's sexual problems may be a result of past events such as negative views of sex from people in authority (parents, teachers, etc.), sexual abuse, and growing up in a homophobic society." A recent study published by the Gay Men's Health Summit also stresses that anxiety about HIV transmission and other sexually transmitted infections can bring another set of issues into the bedroom. What solutions are out there for men who are having sexual dysfunction issues? When men meet with a CAMPsafe sexual health counselor they are presented with a whole range of options, including: Psychological treatment, which involves counseling that focuses on education and reduction of performance anxiety. If the individual has a partner, the partner should be involved in any discussion. Testosterone treatment, which involves seeing a doctor to test for low testosterone levels. There are treatment options that consist of either a testosterone patch, shot, or applied gel. Viagra has become a popular treatment. Viagra should be taken up to an hour before having sex and will last for up to 5 hours. Viagra increases blood flow to the penis. However, if libido is the problem, Viagra may not be the answer. Viagra only works if the individual is sexually turned on. Vacuum Pumping is an erectile device that is a tried and tested method of getting more blood into the penis. This method can be very effective for treating erection problems. According to sexual health counselors, most men who have sought out help have not taken the basic first step-talking with their doctor. Don't be embarrassed about talking about sexual problems with your doctor or clinician. They are used to dealing with problems of this nature and they will be able to help you. If you don't feel comfortable talking to your doctor, CAMPsafe offers a sexual health counseling program. Sexual Health Counseling Sexual health counseling is available to all gay men and covers a range of issues from erectile dysfunction to unwanted unprotected sex. It can be about any concerns you may have around sexual function and behavior, HIV, or other sexually transmitted diseases. It's here to help you to see the choices you have, and help you to have the kind of sex you want. CAMPsafe staff is also available online during the evenings on AOL. You can Instant Message them using their chat names; CAMPsafem4m or CAMPsafem4mjs. If you do not have access to AOL, you may email questions to CAMPsafem4m@aol.com or contact the CAMPsafe program at 302-227-5620 to make an appointment or speak with a counselor. Upcoming CAMPsafe Events We are looking for members of the community to join the Community Advisory Board (CAB). The CAB meets monthly to look at CAMPsafe programs and help plan future events. Call CAMPsafe at 302-227-5620 for further information. |
LETTERS From CAMP Rehoboth, Vol. 12, No. 13, September 20, 2002. |