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April 4, 2014 - Booked Solid by Terri Schlichenmeyer

The AIDS Generation: Stories of Survival and Resilience
by Perry N. Halkitis
c/2014, Oxford University Press;
$49.95; 249 pages

Some of the best experiences you had last year were with your friends.

When you think back about the highlights, you remember dancing together, eating together, late-night bull sessions, parties, travels, and idle man-watching. Those shared experiences are the glue that forever hold your friendship together. 

Or maybe, like the men in The AIDS Generation by Perry N. Halkitis, your bond is that you’re survivors.

The history of AIDS is vast and can’t be told without the stories of the people lost to the disease and the ones they left behind. Of the latter, says Halkitis, “…all the gay men of my generation, infected or not, are long-term survivors...”

Those are the men who came of age in the 1980s when “the promise for sexual freedom and sexual expression existed…” They are the men who, in the prime of their lives and when they should’ve been the picture of health, watched their friends and lovers die and who were told, upon their own AIDS diagnosis, that they, too, would probably be dead within two years. 

But of course, that wasn’t necessarily true. This book, the culmination of a large-scale project on gay men who have lived with AIDS for decades, pulls together 15 survivors who were “still alive to tell their stories as middle-aged men.” 

Some of them don’t remember when they learned of their diagnosis, while some remember the day clearly. Regardless, all exhibited “the pause,” as Halkitis calls the stress reaction to remembering that time. 

Some of the fifteen knew, deep-down, that they’d been infected; one said it would’ve been “a miracle… not to be positive.” For others, it came as a surprise. Some got sick, while others waited for illness that never really came. All are “resilient,” says Halkitis, and are now surprised and amazed to experience the kind of normal health issues that men in middle-age endure.

“I’ve been at the worst of this virus,” one of the men told Halkitis, “and now I’m in the golden years of this virus. This virus has taken me halfway around the world, and I’m still here.”

At first blush, The AIDS Generation may seem like it’s more academic than not. That assessment is true; there is plenty for academics in this book, but casual readers will find something here, too.

As one of the “AIDS Generation,” author Perry N. Halkitis knew, specifically, which questions to ask of his subjects in order to get the memories and emotions he pulled from them. That questioning leads to a fresh sense of heartache in the telling of tales, and a distant theme of horror that bubbles with anger and ends with a general awe for life and an appealing sense of triumph. Despite linguistic stumbles that might’ve been better off edited out, that makes them compellingly readable.

I believe there are two audiences for this book: long-term survivors who count themselves among the warriors, and younger men who need to learn. If you fall into either category, then reading The AIDS Generation will be worthwhile.

Email Terri Schlichenmeyer

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  • February 7, 2014 - Issue Index
  • March 7, 2014 - Issue Index
  • April 4, 2014 - Issue Index
    • April 4, 2014 - Acknowledgments
    • April 4, 2014 - The Way I See It by Steve Elkins
    • April 4, 2014 - Speak Out - Letters to Letters
    • April 4, 2014 - In Brief
    • April 4, 2014 - CAMPmatters by Murray Archibald
    • April 4, 2014 - CAMP Out by Fay Jacobs
    • April 4, 2014 - Amazon Trail by Lee Lynch
    • April 4, 2014 - CAMP Stories by Rich Barnett
    • April 4, 2014 - View Point by Richard J. Rosendall
    • April 4, 2014 - Before the Beach by Bob Yesbek
    • April 4, 2014 - Booked Solid by Terri Schlichenmeyer
    • April 4, 2014 - Thinking Out Loud by Abby Dees
    • April 4, 2014 - Hear Me Out by Chirs Azzapardi
    • April 4, 2014 - Buzz Worthy by Deb Griffin
    • April 4, 2014 - Volunteer Spotlight by Chris Beagle
    • April 4, 2014 - Volunteer Thank You
    • April 4, 2014 - Ask The Doctor by Michael J. Hurd, Ph.D., LCSW
    • April 4, 2014 - CAMPshots Gallery Index
    • April 4, 2014 - CAMP Arts by Doug Yetter
    • April 4, 2014 - CAMP Dates
    • April 4, 2014 - Children's Beach House Golf
    • April 4, 2014 - The Out Field by Dan Woog
    • April 4, 2014 - Beach Times by Fay Jacobs
    • April 4, 2014 - Women's FEST - Ladies 2000
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  • September 12, 2014 - Issue Index
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